I remember when I had first received the news that I would never be able to give birth. That news hit me like a ton, a triple ton of bricks. It’s funny, before that news, I did not want to have any children. Oh no, not me. Whenever I would go over to someone’s home that had children, my radar would go off. “SOUND THE ALARM” it’s time to go home. They were too loud, too loud. I wanted to get up and run to the nearest exit. Then I would go to the grocery store and see children falling out on the floor, rolling around, acting ridiculous and the parents not knowing what to do. I would see the parents trying to reason with these miniature human beings. I would always sit, watch people and wonder who were the parents. It was clear that the shortest one was the one in control. I ran faster from the idea of having children. Having children was always a choice, I thought.
Forced to See My Greatest Gift…
December 1992, I was forced to a different pattern of thinking. I bent over in excruciating pain and my stomach had bloated to a size that I did not recognize my own body. My husband rushed me to the hospital. I had always had a very tight stomach. I always had determination in keeping fit, so what was going on with my body. The doctors said they were not letting me out until they figured out what was happening. They came back with the diagnosis that I had huge fibroid tumors growing inside of me and then the news came. I can still hear the voice of those doctors saying that I probably would never get pregnant. “I would probably never get pregnant.” WOW! I felt like I was living a nightmare. A decision that I always felt was mine, my ears are now hearing the words from a “man about me.” Then the doctor continued to say, that the birth control that I was on was causing my fibroid tumors to grow and that I should not had been on birth control or put anything in my body with estrogen or caffeine. The tears started to stream down my face. As I laid on that hospital bed, the doctor continued to say that if I became pregnant, I would probably have miscarriages, or be in severe pain for the entire nine(9) months. But, as man was speaking, I kept hearing GOD say, “You will give birth, you are a mother to greatness.” I took a deep breathe and thought, I will listen, always listen to you, and prayed to GOD to always guide and lead me to the destiny of my life.
Life’s Journey is the Best Gift…
When Man was saying that I couldn’t, GOD had already said that I could. Please support and be a part of my oldest gift, of two(2), on his journey to his destiny http://www.gofundme.com/uaeec. My soul is overwhelmed with joy and I am so Blessed to have given birth to my two(2) best friends. I thank you, in advance, for being part of the continued growth and dreams that GOD has sat forth for my oldest and precious jewel. Thank you. When GOD speaks, it doesn’t matter what man says. I never had a miscarriage or surgery because of those tumors. Both pregnancies and natural deliveries were the greatest gifts. The gift of life. I still cannot believe that I am their mother and my oldest has graduated from high school and leaving to run his purpose on this earth, while my youngest is going into his junior year of high school.
We do not understand our life’s journey, but as long as we stay focused and realize who is in control of your life, your Greatest gift will be presented to you.
There are a number of individuals teaching, on how to become a millionaire. There are also a number of individuals instructing on how to build multimillion dollar businesses and empires.
If your foundation is not built, your Empire will not stand firm.
“Developing You” is Huge in understanding the gift of life.
I am going to share five ways to creating a MultiMillion $$ You… “Developing You” to create a strong and solid foundation of inner peace.
#1 Developing You, You Must Be Honest
While taking your journey on developing you, you must be honest with yourself. Write down where you are today. How is your lifestyle, your home, your family. How are you treating people. How are they treating you? Then, close your eyes. Go on, close your eyes and open the door to the Wonderland of how you want your life to look. Do not think about the “How.” “How” is creeping in your mind. Get it out of there.
#2 Your Beliefs
Don’t let the situations of what you see, shape who you are. Have you ever sat back and wondered why them? Why did they get to fly to the moon? Why did they become so famous? Why did they make so much money? The only thing that they had was believing in themselves and working hard for what they believed in. Live your life as though your success has already been accomplished.
#3 Leader of You
You must be the leader of your life. Don’t look to the left, don’t look to the right. When you are developing your positive and futuristic mindset, you must stay focused. You must have a passion and determination for the steps that you are taking while developing you. You must be willing to do the work that it takes to reach your success level . Each individual has been planted a seed inside of them waiting to birth. The question is, will your seed stay there and always be a seed? Or, is the question, what nourishment will you feed, your inner seed, for your growth potential. As a leader, you are always reading, listening to CDs, attending seminars, broadening your knowledge so that you are growing as a person. As you grow, you may teach others to grow. You will influence many without realizing it.
This is the year to Vote. There was a time that women and races could not vote. Your vote matters. It’s not the government that will change the state of our world. It’s the people… and you can start by letting your voice be heard and your vote counted.
#4 Your Life Must be balanced
On a scale from 1 to 10 with 10 being the best, I want you to rate the six areas of your life… And be honest with yourself… your Family/HOME, your Finances and your Career, Spirituality, your Health and Fitness, your Social and Recreational, and your Educational and Mental State. After you have rated yourself, I want you to look at your numbers and see what measures do you need to take to become successful and balanced in all areas.
#5 Do Not Quit during Your Journey of Developing You
You have to walk, talk, and carry yourself as a Winner with Confidence …. When you walk with confidence, you attract confident and positive people. Remove all Negativity away from you… Surround yourself around positive people who know how to laugh, and around people who are doing the type of things that you want to do… I went on a woman’ s retreat. One of our activities was hiking. At one point, on the hike, there were so many bees. A number of the women wanted to turn back. I kept saying let’s run through those bees. They cannot stop us. They finally agreed. We ran and ran until we were clear of those bees. Oh My! The beauty on the other side was breathtaking. Those bees were symbolic of the confusion and complexity of life. You have to push through those bees of your life. Do not QUIT! If you quit, you will never know how close you were to creating the MultiMillion $$ you..you will never know how close you were to “Developing You.”
Don’t ever stand and try to convince any person of your beliefs. The stronger your belief, the stronger obstacles will come and try to shut you down. You are saved by your faith, your belief. You will find that with every level that you may reach, with every level that you will climb, there are new struggles that you will go through. Your wings are growing.
Have you ever stopped and looked at a caterpillar turn into a butterfly? How free and beautiful the butterfly flies with grace and effortless.
Don’t let the situations of what you see shape who you are. Situations are always going to be there. Disappointments will always be there. In order to live your own glorious life, you have to take a risk of the natural. Many people are afraid to take risk. Being afraid means “No Faith.” People may talk over and over about how horrible their life is. They may talk about how they need their life to change. In order to succeed, you must move toward the life of the butterfly, taking a risk and fluttering your wings where the wind will carry you. Many times people are asking another person about the direction they should take in their life’s journey. That person doesn’t know you better than you know yourself. Why do people think that other humans know them better? There is a voice inside of you that we all have been given. But, people do not stop for a moment, get in their dark corner and listen to their inner voice of reason. That voice will guide you in standing, then moving your belief toward the beautiful life of a butterfly, full with freedom. Your voice of reason will prepare you to be victorious for the good things that are about to come. The first step is the belief in yourself. If you do not believe in you, no one else will… period. There is no way to fake it.
Take Steps toward Your Belief
It’s time to stop being afraid. When you look in the mirror, you have two(2) choices.
Stay where you are …or
Move your feet, and step out of your cocoon. You feel that your cocoon is your protection, your bubble from a harsh or unfriendly environment. Your cocoon is hindering your growth, your peace, your security.
Belief Teaches How to Fly
Have you ever sat back and wondered why them. Why did he/she get to fly to the moon. Why did he create the light bulb. Why did she make it, in a huge way, being a talk show host. Why is he/she the number one actor/actress. Why was he chosen to create Facebook, Microsoft or Tennis shoes. Why Why Why? The one thing that they had, the only thing that they had was their belief in themselves.. their belief in their cause.. their belief in their product and their perseverance. They let their belief carry them to freedom. They stepped out of their cocoon, spread their beautiful butterfly wings and flew into their glorious destination. Your belief gives you willpower. Your belief gives you courage, just like the lion in the Wizard of Oz. Your courage gives you strength. Your strength gives you the ability to not look left… and not look right.. but keep looking straight ahead and moving forward to fly.
Get a piece of paper. Write your name and the date. On the left side write down your strengths. On the right side write down your weaknesses. Be honest with yourself. Honesty to yourself is the first step to healing, first step to growth. Look at your weaknesses and go to the book store and read on how to strengthen you, you inside. Go on the internet and look up Meetup.com in your area. Meetup groups will help you get out and be around people that are doing what you like or show you how to change your surroundings to be around the people who are living the lifestyle that you desire.
If your belief in yourself is not strong enough yet, let your belief in how you want your life to be for your family and yourself carry you. Your belief will grow you Beautiful Wings for Life.
With the unemployment rate INCREASING, open your eyes to the power within “You” that is INCREASING. There are many people who have always relied on others, always relied on jobs, always relied on the government for their future and their security. But, today in our economy, where are the people that you could go to for income? Where are the Jobs? Where is the government? Those people, who were once there to provide the money, are now looking for a Plan B for themselves. The unemployment situation has given people Read more…
Do you ever look at your life and feel like your life is in fragments? Your thoughts are in fragments? You really do not know which direction to go into or how to get out of situations? Your life doesn’t have to be this way. You have to take control over you. No one else has that power over you. If you feel that someone does, it’s only because you are giving that power away. People can only do to you what you allow them to. Your life is designed the way that it is because you have allowed someone or something to be the “Organizer”. Sometimes you may look at yourself and feel like your head is about to explode because there’s so many thoughts going on in your head, in your mind and in your thoughts and nothing is organized. There will be obstacles, at times, trying to keep Read more…
Are you a leader or a follower? It’s fine to be either. But, you must look at yourself, honestly, and explore where you are today. Leaders start right where you are, a student. They are gaining the knowledge, on a particular topic, and then pass that knowledge down to others to help them grow, in a way that the student never thought possible. If you are a follower, you want to be the best Follower to the best Leader.
A Leader with Passion
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June 23, 2011 at 6:34 pm
In receiving a number of comments on my articles on network marketing, I appreciate them all. I must speak on this topic, “How are You Building Your Business.“
What is in your heart as you approach a prospect. Are you approaching that person with money on your mind or the needs of your prospects. Can what you have benefit them. Do you really care about that person that you are about to approach. Before you take another step, “Stop“. People want to know that you sincerely care about them, their wants, their Read more…
Business cards are very important for planting the seed for your Business. A lot of times when people start their business, the first thing that they want to do, is go out and buy Business Cards. Do You really Read more…
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April 21, 2011 at 5:55 pm
Four(4) Sure Ways of Making a Substantial Amount of Money
I would like to talk to you a little bit about Network Marketing, just in case you don’t know. First of all, there were four(4) sure ways in how people were making a substantial amount of money. The 1st Way, being stocks. We all know how the stock market has gone. The Stock Market, is nothing like it was in Year 2000. The 2nd Way, was Real Estate. We all recognize the dive that the real estate market has taken. The 3rd Way, was small businesses. Unfortunately, Read more…
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March 27, 2011 at 2:53 pm